Monday, March 22, 2010

感触

已经三个月了,这三个月真的很难撑,我真的不懂要撑到几时,很无奈,但没办法。我只能够面对。我真的希望春天将会来临。这三个月,是我人生中最难撑的时刻,我依然去面对他,但有时我真的会泄气,偶尔不开心,但又能够做什么呢!算吧,随缘吧,煮到来就吃吧。希望这件事很快就结束。

Friday, March 19, 2010

親恩難報

親恩難報
當一個人能深刻體會父母的恩德,他的心境就自然柔軟,自然恭敬。記得我姊姊出嫁的時候,因為我是獨子,所以是我去幫姐夫開門。有很多迎娶的禮儀,這些禮儀都有其意義存在。其中有一個禮儀使我的印象最深刻,就是迎娶的最後,我的姐夫帶著姊姊拜別我的父母,我就在旁邊觀禮。當姊姊跟姐夫跪下去的時候,我的父親眼淚瞬間迸發出來,我的眼淚也流出來了,在那個時刻我感受到了一個為人父親的心境。父親照顧女兒二十多年,不知道操了多少心,不知道掛礙了多少事情,念念都希望孩子長得好,書念得好,能有個好歸宿。所以,父親那一滴眼淚,是從內心得到了這麼一點安慰,今天終於幫女兒找到了好歸宿,所以那是一滴欣慰、感動的淚水。
而父母對於子女的關懷、辛勞,是不是嫁出去就不操心了?不是,而是一輩子的愛護。所謂「母活一百歲,常憂八十兒」,母親縱使活了一百歲,八十歲的兒子在她眼裡還是她的小孩。當我的內心感受到一位為人父親的辛勞,我就告訴自己,父母的恩德盡此一生都報之不盡,絕對不能再對父母講一句忤逆的話,講一句不恭敬的話。因為有這一分體會,自然而然看到父親就會心生恭敬,心生歡喜。我們要念念把父母的恩德放在心上,就會「誠
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小故事大智慧
於中,形於外」,我們恭敬的言語跟行為就會表現出來。

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Turning Points

After a long period of time, I was thinking about the past, recent and future. Finally, I have decided to accept everything in the world, perhaps it could be destiny. I really hope that my mother will always stay healthy and don't force herself doing job. We are living very well. As long as u r healthy, we all will satisfy what we have now. My final exam is coming ...., I still have not prepared anything yet. What should I do in the next few weeks, I also do not know. Don't worry, any problems also got its solution. Just let it be. Lastly, I hope my mother will always contact me and "webcaming" me.                              hoelim.