Dilemma

I wonder how sometime I just want a friend that who can talk to me and be my listener but this not happen on me. Every time I heard some sensitive word, I got hurt, tension. why I'm so care about it? I just want a friend who can talk and share anything to me and inversely.Indeed,  I even can not feel  "we are friend or not". I felt we have some barrier between it. My request is very simple. We need empathy to care each other. haaaaaaaaaaai. Just want to shout out to release my tension.