Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Sadness
I felt sad due to low mark for my minor course. What can I do ?, I can not change it. The only thing I can do is follow my teacher's instruction that is don't stress that thing so hardly. Everything happens got reason. I just can do is work very hard for my final exam. Remember, process is more important than result. It's just a little point within my life. Because I have long way to go. Indeed, I am releasing my sadness..
Monday, October 19, 2009
Exam period is coming
Time has come, time has come to exam. This whole semester really tired is because busying for assignments, mid-terms and presentations. Really need to rest, But now can not. I'm still need to work hard for my final examination. I know I can.
Monday, October 5, 2009
德育故事
臥冰求鯉
晉朝的時候,有個孝子名叫王祥。他母親很早就去世,父親娶了後母,後母視他為眼中釘。後來,後母也生了一個男孩,就是王祥的弟弟王覽。從此,後母對王祥更是百般刁難。對一個小孩來說,如此的際遇是非常不幸的。然而,王祥並沒有任何抱怨,反而常常想著如何做才能令後母歡喜。有一天冰天雪地,後母病了想要吃鯉魚,整條河都已經結冰了,如何會有魚出現!王祥到了河邊無可奈何,就呼喚著母親,赤背臥在冰上,希望能出現奇蹟。由於他這分至誠的孝心,冰裂開了,跳出兩條鯉魚,讓他能孝敬後母。這真是孝感天地,至誠感通!王祥不只是在小時候受後母的虐待,長大成家之後,後母對他們依然是百般刁難。但是他的弟弟王覽對兄長很尊敬,每次母親懲罰哥哥時,弟弟就會來從旁解圍。
王祥的道德和學問日漸提升,名聲也愈來愈好。後母隨之起了害王祥的念頭,在酒中下了毒給王祥喝。結果他的弟弟發現了,在情急之下,衝過去把毒酒奪過來,當場要喝下去,想替哥哥去死。後母看到這一幕,立刻把毒酒打翻,感到非常羞愧。因為她時時想置王祥於死地,而她的親生兒子卻寧願為兄長而死。兄弟之情感化了後母,後母和這兩兄弟抱在一起痛哭。所以,唯有德行和真誠,才能轉變人生的惡緣。
以後,王祥跟王覽都在朝廷做了官。有位大官就送了一把傳家寶劍給王祥,並告訴他,擁有這把寶劍的人,子孫一定會非常的發達榮顯。王祥立即把寶劍送給弟弟。史書上記載,王祥和王覽的後代九世都為公卿,就是做大官的。所謂是積善之家,必有餘慶。
Sunday, September 20, 2009
KL Trip
Today I was very happy because my friends and I have gone to KL to have 1 day trip. After the long suffering about the assignments and tension, finally, I can fully enjoy when this holiday has come.
KL's goods, food and drink are really expensive. Just one of the little Banana Pancake costs about RM 5.55 including service charge and gorv. tax.Doesn't matter "lah", as long as we were enjoyed by the trip. Today was really interesting for me because since last time I went to KL last semester, this semester is the first time I have gone. really can get off all the tension. After the whole day activities, I was very tired and spent a lot of money. Anyway, I was happy for today trip and It's worth than money.
Friday, September 18, 2009
德育故事
孝
伯俞憐母
古代有個孝子叫韓伯俞。他的母親在他犯錯時,總是嚴厲地教導他,有時還會打他。待他長大成人後,當他犯錯時,母親的教訓依然如故。有一次母親打他,他突然放聲大哭。母親很驚訝,幾十年來打他從未哭過。
於是就問他:「為什麼要哭?」伯俞回答說:「從小到大,母親打我,我都覺得很痛。我能感受到母親是為了教育我才這麼做。但是今天母親打我,我已經感覺不到痛了。這説明母親的身體愈來愈虛弱,我奉養母親的時間愈來愈短了。想到此我不禁悲從中來。」
所以,父母為了撫育孩子,為了孩子茁壯地成長,日復一日年復一年,年華消逝,日漸衰老。為人子者,更當孝養父母。
伯俞憐母
古代有個孝子叫韓伯俞。他的母親在他犯錯時,總是嚴厲地教導他,有時還會打他。待他長大成人後,當他犯錯時,母親的教訓依然如故。有一次母親打他,他突然放聲大哭。母親很驚訝,幾十年來打他從未哭過。
於是就問他:「為什麼要哭?」伯俞回答說:「從小到大,母親打我,我都覺得很痛。我能感受到母親是為了教育我才這麼做。但是今天母親打我,我已經感覺不到痛了。這説明母親的身體愈來愈虛弱,我奉養母親的時間愈來愈短了。想到此我不禁悲從中來。」
所以,父母為了撫育孩子,為了孩子茁壯地成長,日復一日年復一年,年華消逝,日漸衰老。為人子者,更當孝養父母。
选择与放弃决定着你的生命
不懂得选择与放弃只有死路一条。
祖父用纸给我做过一条长龙。
长龙腹腔的空隙仅仅只能容纳几只半大不小的蝗虫慢慢地爬行过去。
但祖父捉过几只蝗虫,投放进去,它们都在里面死去了,无一幸免!
祖父说:蝗虫性子太躁,除了挣扎,它们没想过用嘴巴去咬破长龙,也不知道 一直向前可以从另一端爬出来。因此,尽管它有铁钳般的嘴壳和锯齿一般的大腿,也无济于事。
当祖父把几只同样大小的青虫从龙头放进去,然后再关上龙头,奇迹出现了:仅仅几分钟时间,小青虫们就一一地从龙尾默默地爬了出来。
蝗虫的死是因为它不懂得去选择,它只知道不停地挣扎,也不懂得放弃,所以只有死路一条;而青虫却恰恰相反,它懂得放弃,知道如何去选择,它活了下来。
命运一直藏匿在我们的思想里。许多人走不出人生各个不同阶段或大或小的阴影,并非因为他们天生的个人条件比别人要差多远,而是因为他们没有想过要将阴影纸龙咬破,也没有耐心慢慢地找准一个方向,一步步地向前,直到眼前出现新的洞天。
——选自《学会选择懂得放弃》吴晶编著
祖父用纸给我做过一条长龙。
长龙腹腔的空隙仅仅只能容纳几只半大不小的蝗虫慢慢地爬行过去。
但祖父捉过几只蝗虫,投放进去,它们都在里面死去了,无一幸免!
祖父说:蝗虫性子太躁,除了挣扎,它们没想过用嘴巴去咬破长龙,也不知道 一直向前可以从另一端爬出来。因此,尽管它有铁钳般的嘴壳和锯齿一般的大腿,也无济于事。
当祖父把几只同样大小的青虫从龙头放进去,然后再关上龙头,奇迹出现了:仅仅几分钟时间,小青虫们就一一地从龙尾默默地爬了出来。
蝗虫的死是因为它不懂得去选择,它只知道不停地挣扎,也不懂得放弃,所以只有死路一条;而青虫却恰恰相反,它懂得放弃,知道如何去选择,它活了下来。
命运一直藏匿在我们的思想里。许多人走不出人生各个不同阶段或大或小的阴影,并非因为他们天生的个人条件比别人要差多远,而是因为他们没有想过要将阴影纸龙咬破,也没有耐心慢慢地找准一个方向,一步步地向前,直到眼前出现新的洞天。
——选自《学会选择懂得放弃》吴晶编著
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Busying and moody period
Recently, too many things are kicking in. First of all is I did not do well in my Mid-term exam. I quite disappoint with my result. My friends told me no need to worry because we still have final exam. Indeed, I've still felt bad.
Secondly, one of the mid-term does not fair to me is because the exam was suddenly declared to me on that day. It's just like pop mid-term to me. What can I do, I can not change anything.Maybe I can say that it was fate. Anyway, life is still going on, so I have decided to work very hard now.But still I quite satisfy one of the mid-term.
Hope springs eternal....................... Be optimistic.
Secondly, one of the mid-term does not fair to me is because the exam was suddenly declared to me on that day. It's just like pop mid-term to me. What can I do, I can not change anything.Maybe I can say that it was fate. Anyway, life is still going on, so I have decided to work very hard now.But still I quite satisfy one of the mid-term.
Hope springs eternal....................... Be optimistic.
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